Sunday, 30 June 2013

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Friday, 28 June 2013

Commander Selvam Siddhar



This blog is to attarct all those people who are expecting some scandal or wrong things about His Holiness Dr.Commander Selvam Siddhar. Our Intention is to throw light on the true nature of Dr.Commander selvam siddhar and enlighten you all, about his true self.

Spirituality

With the blessings of the Almighty and Swamiji I shared some of my thoughts on Spirituality in Upanishads during the past issues. In this issue I wish to discuss Lord Krishna’s ideas on “how to get the best wisdom or knowledge”. According to the thoughts of great saints like Sri.Sankaracharya, Sri.Ramanuja and Sri Madhwacharya Lord Krishna is not only the reincarnation of Lord Mahavishnu. But he is considered as the wisest. Great scholars like Sri.Rajaji and Dr.S.Radhakrishnan considered Lord Krishna as the best statesman. I am not a scholar like them. But with the blessings of Almighty I wish to discuss a little bit about the ”Gnana Yoga”, the fourth chapter of Bhagavat Geetha. Lord Krishna explains to Arjuna, how to get great knowledge, wisdom and mental courage to face the situations. Arjuna was facing the worst situation of facing his cousin brothers, teachers and other close relatives in the battle field. Lord Krishna sat as the driver of Arjuna’s chariot and explained him to face the situations.Instaed of writing as an essay I give this in the form of questions and answers.
The Blessed Lord said: I instructed this imperishable science of yoga to the sun god, Vivasvan, and Vivasvan instructed it to Manu, the father of humankind, and Manu in turn instructed it to Iksvaku. This supreme science was thus received through the chain of disciple succession, and the saintly kings understood it in that way. However, in course of time, the succession was broken, and therefore the science as it is appears to be lost. That very ancient science of the relationship with the Supreme is today told by me to you because you are my devotee as well as my friend; therefore you can understand the transcendental mystery of this science.
Arjuna said: The sun-god Vivasvan is senior by birth to you. How am I to understand that in the beginning you instructed this science to him?
The Blessed Lord said: Many, many births both you and I have passed. I can remember all of them, but you cannot, because you are mortal and I am immortal. Although I am unborn and my transcendental body never deteriorates, and although I am the Lord of all sentient beings, I still appear in every millennium in my original transcendental form. Whenever and wherever there is a decline in religious practice and a predominant rise of irreligion--at that time I descend myself. In order to deliver the pious and to annihilate the miscreants, as well as to reestablish the principles of religion, I advent myself millennium after millennium.
One who knows the transcendental nature of my appearance and activities does not, upon leaving the body, take his birth again in this material world, but attains my eternal abode. Being freed from attachment, fear and anger, being fully absorbed in Me and taking refuge in Me, many, many persons in the past became purified by knowledge of Me and thus they all attained transcendental love for Me. All of them as they surrender unto me I reward accordingly. Everyone follows my path in all respects. Men in this world desire success in furtive activities, and therefore they worship the demigods. Quickly, of course, men get results from furtive work in this world.
According to the three modes of material nature and the work ascribed to them, the four divisions of human society were created by me. And, although I am the creator of this system, you should know that I am yet the non-doer, being unchangeable. There is no work that affects Me; nor do I aspire for the fruits of action. One who understands this truth about me also does not become entangled in the furtive reactions of work.
All the liberated souls in ancient times acted with this understanding and so attained liberation. Therefore, as the ancients, you should perform your duty in this divine consciousness. Even the intelligent are bewildered in determining what is action and what is inaction. Now I shall explain to you what action is, knowing which you shall be liberated from all sins. The intricacies of action are very hard to understand. Therefore one should know properly what action is, what forbidden action is, and what inaction is.
One, who sees inaction in action, and action in inaction, is intelligent among men, and he is in the transcendental position, although engaged in all sorts of activities. One is understood to be in full knowledge whose every act is devoid of desire for sense gratification. He is said by sages to be a worker whose furtive action is burnt up by the fire of perfect knowledge. Abandoning all attachment to the results of his activities, ever satisfied and independent, he performs no furtive action, although engaged in all kinds of undertakings.
Such a man of understanding acts with mind and intelligence perfectly controlled, gives up all sense of proprietorship over his possessions and acts only for the bare necessities of life. Thus working, he is not affected by sinful reactions. He who is satisfied with gain which comes of its own accord, who is free from duality and does not envy, who is steady both in success and failure, is never entangled, although performing actions.
The work of a man who is unattached to the modes of material nature and who is fully situated in transcendental knowledge merges entirely into transcendence.
A person who is fully absorbed in Lord Krishna’s teachings and follows it is sure to attain the spiritual kingdom because of his full contribution to spiritual activities, in which the consummation is absolute and that which is offered is of the same spiritual nature. Some yogis perfectly worship the demigods by offering different sacrifices to them, and some of them offer sacrifices in the fire of the Supreme Brahman. Some of them sacrifice the hearing process and the senses in the fire of the controlled mind, and others sacrifice the objects of the senses, such as sound, in the fire of sacrifice.
Those who are interested in self-realization, in terms of mind and sense control, offer the functions of all the senses, as well as the vital force [breath], as oblations into the fire of the controlled mind.
There are others who, enlightened by sacrificing their material possessions in severe austerities, take strict vows and practice the yoga of eightfold mysticism, and others study the Vedas for the advancement of transcendental knowledge. And there are even others who are inclined to the process of breath restraint to remain in trance, and they practice stopping the movement of the outgoing breath into the incoming, and incoming breath into the outgoing, and thus at last remain in trance, stopping all breathing. Some of them, curtailing the eating process, offer the outgoing breath into itself, as a sacrifice.
All these performers who know the meaning of sacrifice become cleansed of sinful reaction, and, having tasted the nectar of the remnants of such sacrifice, they go to the supreme eternal atmosphere. Dear Arjuna, without sacrifice one can never live happily on this planet or in this life: what then of the next? All these different types of sacrifice are approved by the Vedas, and all of them are born of different types of work. Knowing them as such, you will become liberated.
Dear Arjuna, you are very wonderful and brave person. Do not fear on the situations. Their karma is like that. You are used only as a weapon or some sort of machinery by the karma or destiny. The sacrifice of knowledge is greater than the sacrifice of material possessions. So, dear Arjuna, after all, the sacrifice of work culminates in transcendental knowledge. Just try to learn the truth by approaching a spiritual master. Inquire from him submissively and render service unto him. The self-realized soul can impart knowledge unto you because he has seen the truth.
And when you have thus learned the truth, you will know that all living beings are but part of me--and that they are in me, and are mine. Even if you are considered to be the most sinful of all sinners, when you are situated in the boat of transcendental knowledge, you will be able to cross over the ocean of miseries. As the blazing fire turns firewood to ashes, O Arjuna, so does the fire of knowledge burn to ashes all reactions to material activities.
In this world, there is nothing as sublime and pure as transcendental knowledge. Such knowledge is the mature fruit of all mysticism. And one who has achieved this enjoys the self with himself in due course of time. A faithful man who is absorbed in transcendental knowledge and who subdues his senses quickly attains the supreme spiritual peace.

But ignorant and faithless persons who doubt the revealed scriptures do not attain God consciousness. For the doubting soul there is happiness neither in this world nor in the next. Therefore, one who has renounced the fruits of his action, whose doubts are destroyed by transcendental knowledge, and who is situated firmly in the self, is not bound by works, O conqueror of riches. Therefore the doubts which have arisen in your heart out of ignorance should be slashed by the weapon of knowledge. Armed with yoga, stand and fight. There is no use in simply going through the writings of great scholars. But one should try to adopt at least a few points of the teachings of great scholars. By adopting these methods, we can live in a wonderful world. That wonderful world will be free from all kinds of egos, jealous and other unwanted fights. I thank Almighty and Swamiji for giving me opportunity to share my thoughts on Spirituality. 



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Wednesday, 26 June 2013

Dr.Commander Selvam Siddhar








This blog is to attarct all those people who are expecting some scandal or wrong things about His Holiness Dr.Commander Selvam Siddhar. Our Intention is to throw light on the true nature of Dr.Commander selvam siddhar and enlighten you all, about his true self.






The world is not an illusion according to Sankara. The world is relatively real, while Brahman is absolutely real. The world is the product of Maya or Avidya. The unchanging Brahman appears as the changing world through Maya. Maya is a mysterious indescribable power of the Lord which hides the real and manifests itself as the unreal: Maya is not real, because it vanishes when you attain knowledge of the Eternal. It is not unreal also, because it exists till knowledge dawns in you. The superimposition of the world on Brahman is due to Avidya or ignorance. To Sankara, the individual soul is only relatively real. Its individuality lasts only so long as it is subject to unreal limiting conditions due to Avidya. The Jiva identifies itself with the body, mind and the senses, when it is deluded by Avidya or ignorance. It thinks, it acts and enjoys, on account of Avidya. In reality it is not different from Brahman or the Absolute. The Upanishads declare emphatically: “Tat Tvam ASI—That Thou Art.” Just as the bubble becomes one with the ocean when it bursts, just as the pot-ether becomes one with the universal ether when the pot is broken, so also the Jiva or the empirical self becomes one with Brahman when it gets knowledge of Brahman. When knowledge dawns in it through annihilation of Avidya, it is freed from its individuality and finitude and realizes its essential Sachidanand nature. It merges itself in the ocean of bliss. The river of life joins the ocean of existence. This is the Truth. 
The release from Samsara means, according to Sankara, the absolute merging of the individual soul in Brahman due to dismissal of the erroneous notion that the soul is distinct from Brahman. According to Sankara, Karma and Bhakti are means to Jnana (wisdom) which is Moksha.

To Sankara the world is only relatively real . He advocated , the theory of appearance or superimposition. Just as snake is superimposed on the rope in twilight, this world and body are superimposed on Brahman or the Supreme Self. If you get knowledge of the rope, the illusion of snake in the rope will vanish. Even so, if you get knowledge of Brahman or the Imperishable, the illusion of body and world will disappear. In Vivarta-Vada, the cause produces the effect without undergoing any change in itself. Snake is only an appearance on the rope. The rope has not transformed itself into a snake, like milk into curd. Brahman is immutable and eternal. Therefore, it cannot change itself into the world. Brahman becomes the cause of the world through Maya, which is its inscrutable mysterious power or Sakti.

When you come to know that it is only a rope, your fear disappears. You do not run away from it. Even so, when you realize the eternal immutable Brahman, you are not affected by the phenomena or the names and forms of this world. When Avidya or the veil of ignorance is destroyed through knowledge of the Eternal, when Mithya Jnana or false knowledge is removed by real knowledge of the Imperishable or the living Reality, you shine in your true, pristine, divine splendor and glory. I wish to quote some more from another great saint Sri Ramana Maharishi. He has also written a lot about spirituality. To Have a spiritual life we should raise some questions to oureself. By getting the proper answer, we will have the best guidance to lead a highly spiritual life. He has given the questions and answers , that one should ask himself. Then only one can ahave the self realization and by ralizing one, will lead the life in the path of spirituality. He has given them as the basic instructions to lead a spiritual life.


1. What are the marks of a real teacher (Sad guru)? 

Steady abidance in the Self, looking at all with an equal eye, unshakeable courage at all times, in all places and circumstances, etc.

2. What are the marks of an earnest disciple (sadsisya)? 

An intense longing for the removal of sorrow and attainment of joy and an intense aversion for all kinds of mundane pleasure and to lead a highly spiritual life.

3. What are the characteristics of instruction (upadesa)? 

The word 'upadesa' means: 'near the place or seat' (upa - near, desa - place or seat). The Guru who is the embodiment of that which is indicated by the terms sat, chit, and ananda (existence, consciousness and bliss), prevents the disciple who, on account of his acceptance of the forms of the objects of the senses, has swerved from his true state and is consequently distressed and buffeted by joys and sorrows, from continuing so and establishes him in his own real nature without differentiation.

Upadesa also means showing a distant object quite near. It is brought home to the disciple that the Brahman which he believes to be distant and different from him is near and not different from himself.

4. If it be true that the Guru is one's own Self (atman), what is the principle underlying the doctrine which says that, however learned a disciple may be or whatever occult powers he may possess, he cannot attain self-realization (atma-siddhi) without the grace of the Guru? 

Although in absolute truth the state of the Guru is that of oneself it is very hard for the Self which has become the individual soul (jiva) through ignorance to realize its true state or nature without the grace of the Guru.

All mental concepts are controlled by the mere presence of the real Guru. If he were to say to one who arrogantly claims that he has seen the further shore of the ocean of learning or one who claims arrogantly that he can perform deeds which are well-nigh impossible, "Yes, you learnt all that is to be learnt, but have you learnt (to know) yourself? And you who are capable of performing deeds which are almost impossible, have you seen yourself?", they will bow their heads (in shame) and remain silent. Thus it is evident that only by the grace of the Guru and by no other accomplishment is it possible to know oneself.

5. What are the marks of the Guru's grace? 

It is beyond words or thoughts.

6. If that is so, how is it that it is said that the disciple realizes his true state by the Guru's grace? 

It is like the elephant which wakes up on seeing a lion in its dream. Even as the elephant wakes up at the mere sight of the lion, so too is it certain that the disciple wakes up from the sleep of ignorance into the wakefulness of true knowledge through the Guru's benevolent look of grace.

7. What is the significance of the saying that the nature of the real Guru is that of the Supreme Lord?

In the case of the individual soul which desires to attain the state of true knowledge or the state of Godhood (super human power) and with that object always practices devotion, when the individual's devotion has reached a mature stage, the Lord who is the witness of that individual soul and identical with it, comes forth in human form with the help of sat-chit-ananda, His three natural features, and form and name which he also graciously assumes, and in the guise of blessing the disciple, absorbs him in Himself. According to this doctrine the Guru can truly be called the Lord.

8. What is the end of the path of knowledge (jnana) or Vedanta? 

It is to know the truth that the 'I' is not different from the Lord (supre human Power, and to be free from the feeling of being the doer (kartrtva, ahamkara).

9. How can it be said that the end of both these paths is the same? 

Whatever the means, the destruction of the sense 'I' and 'mine' is the goal, and as these are interdependent, the destruction of either of them causes the destruction of the other; therefore in order to achieve that state of Silence which is beyond thought and word, either the path of knowledge which removes the sense of 'I' or the path of devotion which removes the sense of 'mine', will suffice. So there is no doubt that the end of the paths of devotion and knowledge is one and the same.

NOTE: So long as the 'I' exists it is necessary to accept the Lord also. If any one wishes to regain easily the supreme state of identity (sayujya) now lost to him, it is only proper that he should accept this conclusion.

10. What is the mark of the ego? 

The individual soul of the form of 'I' is the ego The Self which is of the nature of intelligence (chit) has no sense of 'I'. Nor does the insentient body possess a sense of 'I'. The mysterious appearance of a delusive ego between the intelligent and the insentient, being the root cause of all these troubles, upon its destruction by whatever means, which which really exists will be seen as it is. This is called Liberation (moksha). 

Monday, 24 June 2013

Commander Selvam Siddhar











Mental Tendencies :-Ambitious , dominating, active, courageous and lover of independence. Impulsive and a good guide. They are rash and aggressive. Personality :-Such girls are truthful, quarrelsome, energetic, fond of relation with opposite sex and of independent views. She always speaks high of his family. Her outstanding weakness is jealousy and pride. She expects to be praised by her husband or friend but cannot tolerate that her husband or friend should praise any other lady in her presence. Aggressive, very romantic, of phlegmatic nature, and loves the person to whom she can admire. Such girls are brave, venturesome, generous, diplomatic, in their opinion, o quick actions and have progressive tendencies. They marry early and in hurry. Legal proceedings may follow her during the life. There can be possibility of residence in foreign land under forced circumstances. Somewhat fiery or quick tempered. Such girls do not shirk taking responsibility, quick actions and decisions. it is said that when one is in love with Arian girls , he is to be congratulated or sympathized. Aries girls is determined to take the load, to be the first to move to action, and that includes the action of making first advance in romance. She wants to be leader in love affair. A man who resists her impact always intrigues her. Your mate should not neglect your talent and abilities. She will demand a lot from you and will return in double measure. After and before marriage Arian girls want complete freedom. She seldom loves two men simultaneously and before going to other man, the Damsel will say "Good Bye" to the former and not leave him in lurch or guessing. If you are a career girl, you pretty girls cannot be succumbed to the charms of a man , not seduced by an idealist. Treats love on a equal sharing basis. To dampen or injure your pride will almost break your heart. A good house wife also. Arians rarely fall ill or feel fatigue, but when they feel so, they need full and whole time attention of her partner and rest.
Health :-Generally Arian girls enjoy good health , and have power of resistance to the disease. But surely they are prone to injuries and accidents particularly to the head. They are liable to suffer from phlegmatic, headaches, burns, brain affections, irregular disorders, pimples etc. Cautious :-Arian girls should take plenty of rest and sleep. Green vegetables and good food is must for them. Avoid worry, excitements and anger, also avoid stimulates and non vegetarian food specially during the period when they are on family way. Finances :-Subject to horoscope planetary position, Arians are not meant for amassing the wealth in spite of your strong desires. Extravagant, she will lose money through impulsive actions and rash investments. in case there are malefic planets in Ascendant, her budget will remain unbalanced and she will start in a flash and end in a crash. So she should think calmly and seriously before taking any action specially regarding finances and investment etc. Romance And Marriage:-- They are extremely frank and enthusiastic in love, their good nature and charm attract the opposite sex, so they marry early and in a haste. Of practical views, lasting affection, freedom and adventure in love these are their basic traits. She generally has the instinct to over ride and over power her husband and friends, aggressive and is very romantic. She have a fiery nature and as such can be controlled with tact and patience. A difficult guy to deal with, sexy and passionate in nature.  
Ideal Match :-Leo, Libra and Sagittarius persons with their Ascendants are fit to marry her. Both are advised to be peaceful, avoid lavish spending and have saving disposition. Domestic Environments :-In order to have happy home and domestic life, she must avoid rash temperament, criticism of each other , being sarcastic and not to be more impulsive and impatient, otherwise she has to face bickering as already hinted under personality, legal proceedings. So be warned, otherwise she loves her home much, keeps it neat and clean, is excellent host and has good friends. Good company, good home and to be cheerful is her basic traits. Lucky Days, Numbers And Colors :-Lucky days for her are Tuesday, Saturday and Friday. Fair days are Monday and Sunday. (Test them and then use them) for important works. Other days are expensive and undesirable. Day of fast is Tuesday.9 and 1 are lucky numbers for her, which vibrate. Attractive numbers are 4 and 8 whereas 2,3,5 are passive. 6 and 7 are disagreeable. Red , yellow, copper and golden are favorable Colors. Avoid Black


Physical Appearance :-Such girls are short to middle stature, of broad forehead, plumpy, bright eyes, thick and stout neck, dark hair, clear complexion, and well developed body. Mental Tendencies :-Preserving, constant, conservative, determined, obstinate, and ambitious of power. Social, affectionate and loving but can also be very unreasonable, prejudiced, when angry will not stop at anything . Slow but good steady worker. Personality :-This being an Earthy and fixed sign, ladies born under this Ascendant are practical, solid and substantial. Having a great amount of physical, energy, they become very furious and violent when severely angered. Though secretive and reserved they make faithful friends. They are excellent companions to those possessing ideas and as coworkers. They are reliable, trustworthy and sincere. Such ladies are agreeable in nature, obedient to her husband, straight forward and one can depend on their opinion. Skilled in arts and fond o relations. A good host and expects the same in return. Keep the house tidy and up-to-date within their means. Faithful in love , maintains harmony in domestic life, affectionate, warm and ever loving. Divorce with such ladies is rare. Good wife and mother too. Reserved and calm. You may doubt the character of your husband but keep no secret of their love. Anxious for a harmonious wedded life. Your gender and basic honesty are undiluted with normal feminine tricks and self control on the average. If you like someone you will be loyal to him through all his ups and downs, and Intellectual guy. They are strictly a physical creature and of refined tastes, fond of music and art. A good cook, her kitchen is generally said a real man`s trap. She has good sense of touch. Not so much demanding except love and loyalty. She cannot be pleased if criticized in public, likes to do things slowly. If man rushes her, she will becomes violent. A good mother ,more of a friend to her children than a mother. She dislikes weakness in any form, you never expect to be supported without contributing your share. A soul of hospitability, she will expect from your husband care for you in all directions. A dependable, predictable girl and a good cook too.

Health :-She is less sensitive to pains and normally enjoys robust and super human health. If she falls ill, will suffer for a long time due to non satisfactory of her recuperative power, so recovery is slow. Affliction of throat, tonsils, diphtheria, neck, pyorrhea and apoplexy are the diseases to which you are prone for affliction. She has unbounded appetite and try to lead temperate life. Cautious :-She should not be obstinate, not slow in action, not be selfish and vindictive. She should not retain anger for long time. Avoid doubting others. Finances:- She is of saving disposition and will accumulate money but never squander unnecessarily. Of materialistic mind, will get money from others. Practical and rise gradually. In money matters, you do not take chances. Not extravagant and know the value of money. 

Romance And Marriage :-This sign indicates love affairs, taste in music, art, cinema and drama etc. Opposition and upsetting conditions may not deter her from sincerity, love and to be loyal to a man whom she likes once from the core of her heart. Impulsive in love and take a long time to select a mate. She does not like quarrels and hate confusion. In married life, she will set well and devoted to husband. Divorce is rare with her. She will bear and suffer the untold miseries and never desert her partner but instead will look after him well, and care him and protect him under any circumstances. Fond of giving parties, sumptuous food to others and hope to be treated in similar way. Ideal Match :-The best suited people for a taurean girl are those who have Virgo, Capricorn, Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces as their birth Ascendants. This denotes good partners, contributing to peace, maintain happy married life and harmony. Domestic Environments :-Good , prosperous, harmonious and happy domestic life, devoted husband and she will have comforts, rest and peace at home. An orderly, good maintained, decorated and tidy house. Five "P" pleasure, property, popularity and position means much to her.  



Physical Appearance :-Airy and Mutable sign. Gemini born girls are tall, upright, slender, quick and has moderate complexion. Legs are thin with visible veins, long arms, face, nose and chin. Hazel or Grey eyes, look sharp and active. Mental Tendencies:-She is very difficult to understand due to her dualistic or vacillating nature but is very reliable in emergency. Form intellectual ranks and so geminis are witty, intelligent , lovely, somewhat shy or retiring, humane, but nervous and restless. Admirer of music, dance, painting, travels and inventions. Science subjects will suit you best. Personality :-Geminian ladies are very intelligent, and want mental companionship, do not want to be mere house keeper. After marriage even they will not give up their outside activities. They cannot tolerate any resentment and restrictions by the partner against their wish. They should be more tactful for happy life. No one can better do the things than she can and in graceful way. But she lacks concentration and quick decision. She is ambitious, aspiring, argumentative (which should be avoided) and fond of mental recreations. Gemini girls are restless, anxious, highly strung, diffusive, mentally timid, indecisive and excitable. Love ,change and diversity in all walks of life. She is a good adviser and can be relied upon in case of emergency. She is subject to lot of changes in your life. Enjoy the life to the maximum and may suffer continuously the misfortune. She cannot be easily imposed upon, for it she may like to severer may neglect her husband or if she wants to be house wife. may leave her career. So be wise and take the decision calmly and not in a haste because she loves her home, husband and children. She is or will under the influence of opposite sex, capable of making friendship very quickly but such relation die to her fault finding nature. More the romance, more happy she will be. In case one marries a Gemini girl, one is to be guaranteed that he has at least two different wives. Her age will be important clue. Till she matures, romance is only a game to her. She can be fickle, unpredictable to an incredible degree. First she will be ecstatically carried away by your smile and voice. Then she will reverse her ecstasy and criticism for all your actions and even dress. So you are getting at least two in one and that is indisputably bargain. Not heartless, romance is easiest way for them to express as other woman. She needs pity and not anger. She is a lovely and gay companion and enjoys all the sentimental gestures of romance and appealing charm. Truly in love, a very good mother too, Being of a changeable nature if she is far from you for some time, she may change mate without warning you. Please be careful men folks!

Health :-Worry and anxiety may spoil her health, she should avoid it. Her health will remain normally good. Geminis should avoid mental strain, over work .Cautious:--On the other hand she should take rest, plenty of exercise, fresh air breathing, eat conservatively and cultivate physical and mental poise. Finances :--There will be lot of changes in her life. She will enjoy the life with a good fortune and suffer continuous misfortune experiencing both privation and plenty. Family disputes and disagreement with them. She will bring her downfall herself. Her secret love affairs if any will bring loss and difficulties. Some of them may have progeny through such connections which will be perennial source of trouble and headache.  Romance And Marriage:--Gemini being a dual sign, she always feel that variety is spice of life. She makes quick friendship and find fault quickly and often lose them. So she cannot find a friend of her satisfaction even though she long for it. She cannot be understood easily because of duality in nature but more romance for her is the source of more happiness for her. Geminis are of calculative nature and cynical in love. She is of flirtation nature if horoscope indicates. Excuse me for this ! In case her partner is equally intelligent, she will enjoy the married life otherwise bickering and separation may follow. Short journeys in life are indicated. Ideal Match :--Geminis are best suited for Libra, Aquarius. Aries and Leo born people with their birth Ascendants. The combination can lead to happy and favorable life as these men can understand her better and will control her.



Physical Appearance:-Cancer is watery and movable sign. Its Lord is Moon. Girls born under this Ascendant have round face, full cheeks, short nose but prominent, sometimes at the tipe. Black or light blue eyes or even grey. Pale complexion ,wide breast, small hands and feet. Mental Tendencies :- Cancerian damsels are fond of change, novelty and travelling. Attached to relations and home. Inclined to public life, sympathetic, changeful and impatient. Emotional, sentimental and over sensitive. Anger comes and goes quickly. Diplomat, discreet and conventional. Personality :-They are sincere, loyal, affectionate, dutiful and devoted to your husband. A good mother for children. Moody but adoptable with family atmosphere. When they are neglected, overlooked or ignored then they become stubborn and determined, they will not yield. Cancerians become changeable in nature, will not give up unless the partner do something drastic to which they cannot tolerate. Being secretive , they hide much from others. Sensitive and retiring, romantic and imaginative. Easily influenced and will adjust to circumstances. Of emotional nature, of true hospitability, deep feeling of loyalty and responsibility. They are interested to get small money from many sources then a big amount from one source. Impressionable and magnetic. Accumulation of wealth through hard works and efforts.

Their tenacity and honor be kept in mind by all who are in close contact with them. They do not overwhelm their friend with their vivacity and sparkling flattery but impress them with their charm. They keep emotions in safe for persons closest to them. Any unintentional remark can wound them harshly as they are sensitive and tender. She can be quite touchy. She is not so much jealous but possessive. When things go wrong she will only shed tears and wait for thing to become right because patience is one of her loveliest virtue. Health :-She will have fragile health in youth but as age advances, she will pick up the health. Nervous and worried . Digestive system and throat to be taken care of. Have a reasonable diet. Guard against weak digestion, rheumatism and sciatica. Also affections of Lungs, throat, flu, cough, pleurisy, dyspepsia, flatulence, gall stone and boils on the chest are the diseases to be safe guarded. Cautious:- In spite of all the above good points, she should be patient, endured and avoid sensitiveness. Indolence and changeability which are her weak points to be corrected. She should avoid inferiority complex and do not be over anxious, lazy and passive. She should not be vindictive and should control her passions. She should overcome her timid nature. 

Romance And Marriage:- It is brutally unfair to toy with the heart of this girl, because she will love, honor, obey and nag you a little with sincere devotion. There is nothing shallow or superficial about the sentiments of a Cancer women. For cancerian Damsels life is monotonous without romance. They are loyal, sincere and affectionate in love but she lack in expressing her love, loyalty and sincerity to her partner. They are honest and very true. Cancerians are fickle minded and changeable yet stubborn and determined. Her home and family are important and she enjoys a settled family life. A good homely bird but of romantic and passionate nature. Good parents for children as she will sacrifice her own need for them to provide them education and all comforts. A calm and good married life. Ideal Match:- She should preferably marry Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces born persons. Domestic Environments :-Cancerians are devoted to their family and children. Love the home and derive pleasure from them. A good family atmosphere. Her desire is to keep friendship of long standing. A good host for friends will give her satisfaction. She will do heroic sacrifice for her partner, family , children and those who help to maintain peace. A good companion in odd times, she is possessive but never aggressive. She will remove worries of her loved one through jokes, sensible advice, rich humor and intelligence. In case her man sees her in fire or moon light and asks himself all over again, "Is she really a Moon maiden from some misty garden or a lovable loony bird." But the answer will not be so astonishing because it will be she and she only Cancerian Damsel. 


Physical Appearance :-It is Fiery and fixed sign of the Zodiac. Leos are introverts. You Leos are energetically gregarious and beautifully indolent. Blush on your face, broad forehead, walk straight and proudly with a hidden, quivering intensity. Commanding air and stately bearing personality. Blue eyes but generally Leos have dark brown eyes that are first soft, and gentle, then snap and crackle with fire, often round in shape and slightly tilted at the corner. Hair is dark and reddish blonde and usually wavy, worn in wild, careless style that upsweeps, stands out fully on top and ruddy or florid complexion. Leos have broad shoulders, large bones and muscles, tall, upright body better formed than lower. Thin waste, prominent knees, round and full size head. Majestic appearance, imposing, commanding and dignifies. Catching and large staring eyes. In short a royal disposition. Mental Tendencies :-Ambitious, generous, honorable, frank, warm hearted, self confident, fearless, impulsive, determined, of independent views. Preserving and conscientious. Fond of power and distinction in every walk of life. Linking for art, cheerful, optimistic disposition. Magnanimous and generous. Large hearted and noble but of rash temperament and sarcastic. 



Leo ladies are ambitious and ideal, manages her home ideally , successful social worker and make favorable impression on all, you will command social and prominent position, she is a self sacrificing and have everlasting love. Leo born girl need not doubt for her Leo born husband for being popular with opposite sex, not selfish and does not expect return from others. She need one to keep her under control, prosperous and of peaceful life. She is very passionate and requires self control, lest you go beyond control and limits, of fixed views, dogmatic ideas and you expect that your partner should treat her word a law in the home. Her demands, the home is then heaven and more compatibility prevails otherwise it will become a Hell. The Leo girls accept gifts smilingly, vulgarity and snag both leave her ice cold. She can exist without flattery, she admires your masculinity, she will not love you if you are not strong. Leo girls are athletes and fond of sports. she can be arrogant. Truthful, intelligent, witty, strong and capable yet deliciously feminine at the same time. Confinement within four walls of house can soon rob her of her of her sparkle. She is a free bird. 

Health:-Generally Leos keeps good health. In case of illness, she will recover speedily. Heart disease, palpitation of heart, spinal, meningitis, Sun stroke, giddiness. rheumatic fever etc. When in horoscope Capricorn and Aquarius signs are posted or afflicted with malefic planets will cause swelling of ankles followed by heart disease. Jupiter in Leo or aspecting Leo lagna will protect you from heart disease and surgical operation but aspect of Mars on Leo lagna indicates surgical operation. So to avoid above diseases, Leos should take balanced diet, avoid drinks, simulates and hot beverages etc. Simple diet is best for them. Cautious:-Leo damsels are determined and of dogmatic views but this does not mean that before deciding anything she should not take other`s views, ideas and advice. She is extrovert, roar like a lion and trap yourself in trouble , such temperament be controlled and avoided. Arguments, altercations and actions annoying others be avoided, do not be hasty and get irritated. Leos must avoid forcing your view points, desires and opinions on others, never be arrogant, restrict your wants, behave in a attractive manner, be economical for old age. Avoid rash temperament and impulsiveness. Be patient careful, do not be carried away by other`s flattery. She must remain detached from feelings and control your passionate nature. Avoid bossing over others.

 Finances :-She is fortunate and have sufficient resources. She is spend thrift, as age advances her bank balance may deteriorate. Tempted for gambling and speculation, luckily rewarded but avoid it. Romance And Marriage:-Leo damsels are `A` class romantic, passionate, an ideal lovers, fiery in passions but sincere and faithful. She will not show any demonstration of love in public as she considers it below your dignity. She has great affection to the opposite sex. Fond of dress, scents and cosmetics, spend much in beauty parlors. She is center of attention of admiring males, but her husband should not be jealous of this. She may encourage the male compliments and indulge in light, innocent, flirtation, because her deep need for applause and adulation but in spite of all she loves her husband most. She cannot tolerate praising or admiring other Indies in her presence. She maintains harmony in domestic life. Love for children is must and feel proud of them. She must rely on her children otherwise they may lose her confidence and vice versa.

 Ideal Match :-Leo is a fiery sign and best sutted for Aries, Sagittarius, Gemini, Libra and Aquarius born persons. Domestic Environments :-Leos are born to rule, so try to be leader in the house and expect others at home to be submissive, cooperative, obedient and grateful to her. She likes the family members to be magnanimous and noble. She will try to keep peace, harmony and happiness at all cost in the home. She will keep home tidy, decorative and attractive. Careful and choosy for dress, furniture and curtains etc. She is very choosy for friends. Will not hesitate to spend for her prestige and honor. She will lead aristocratic life and your home will be an impressive one. Lucky Days, Numbers And Colors:-Sundays, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday and Friday are favorable days Monday and Saturday be avoided for any important and new works. 1,4,5,6 and 9 are lucky numbers, avoid 2,7,8, her passive number is 3. Orange, Red , Green and White are her lucky colors. She should avoid Blue and Black. To reduce the evils, keep fast on full Moon days throughout her life regularly. 



Thursday, 20 June 2013

Dr.Commander Selvam Siddhar








It is exactly in this context that Mars has come to occupy the most important consideration in matching of horoscopes at the time of marriage. It is not possible to determine the influence of Mars, Venus and Moon about any person without having his/her horoscope before us. The matching of proposals for marriage of basis of the Zodiac Signs of the Sun is therefore an eyewash of an apology in this regard. Even a dud idiot knows that all person born under a particular Sun sign can never have the same personality, the same future, the same likes and needs, the same success and failure in life, we can challengingly claim that for future of any person we have to have its horoscope cast on basis of its correct date, time and place of birth. The scientific element or the ratio between a Sun Sign and individual horoscope is therefore 1:360. In other words, a Sun Sing herds together all individual born in a particular month of the presence of Sun in a Zodiac Sign, irrespective of the year of birth; thereby covering the entire population of the World under twelve Signs or categories, placing a cart-puller and a Chairman of a multi-billion Company in the column of same future and fortune.




Sunday, 16 June 2013

Commander Selvam Siddhar